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It is hard because I can't help but put some faith back in him, and get my hopes up, but it is so incredibly scary, because he could hurt me again!


I find this the scariest bit aswell. It's only human. But the benefits if it works are great. Just hang in there.

Have you talked to Sara on thses boards? She went to Retro and it was such a positive experience for her and her H.

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength