She currently lives about 1 1/2 hours away from me so "chance meetings" and things like that just aren't going to happen. That is why I am worried that I have become "out of sight out of mind". As for our terms, as the email I posted elsewhere says, she says she is still mad and not interested in being friends. I do not defend myself, and have been far from confrontational with her. There was never an attempt at reconcilling and the reason for divorce listed on my papers is "the parties have been seperated for a year". I think that to a point she is still upset, but I also think that she has put an angry face on things to justify having an affair, leaving and divorcing.
