If I am the one?

[thegoodfight]

I have been contemplating a question and I don't believe it belongs in my original post. Since I came back, I was the one that committed adultrey, and now I am the one that wants to work it out I am not sure I can relate to many threads.

Let me explain, from what I have read most folks here are struggling with their S. being with someone else. I on the other hand never left the house for someone else, I left for me and came to my senses pretty quick (2 weeks). Most here are hurt by the others infidelity.

My question is this, so many seem willing to go to C. or get help to save the marriage and are still being hurt by unknowns or the S. not being home. I guess I am doubting my chances since my W. doesn't want to work on it. She doesn't want me back.