Congratualtions! You have been rewarded for your patience and generosity of spirit. I too am in a resurrected marriage (for want of a better word). The path back to togetherness is rocky in its own right.
My husband and I found our way after going to a Retrouvaille weekend. I recommend it to you as a way to learn constructive communication with your wife, and to heal the marriage. For us it was truly a lifeline. They have a website http://www.retrouvaille.org. The weekend was the place where my Husband and I found our passion for each other again. (And we were not the only ones.) We will be celebrating our 28th anniversary in October.
