Thanks Nugget. The more I think about it, the more I think we really do need the S for her to think clearly without pressure from me. The good thing is I get to bum out at a co-worker's place so I only have to take my clothing and my computer. So pretty much all my stuff are still at home. That should at least remind her that this is temporary hopefully. I just have to survive the initial period where she wants space until she turns around and hopefully then we can slowly move forward.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.