Hi Faith - thanks for reading my sitch. I appreciate that! Yes, it's been a crazy year, but in retrospect it hasn't been that awful. YOu would think that I would feel like it were, but it hasn't been the worst year of my life. Isn't that crazy? I wonder if that means something...hmm...

I know that what you are going through is so difficult. Hang in there. Remember that your goal is to formulate a HEALTHY marriage. You are doing well. And I agree with LWB, find something to do on Saturday. But thank him - maybe have coffee waiting or a snack out for him with a little note of thanks, but don't actually be there. Can you imagine the intrigue you will generate with a thank you card that has a flirty note in it saying sorry I couldn't be here, have this "snack/coffee/whatever" and think of me. ;\) Hmmm...he will be wondering the whole time. You want to get him to think about you.

You are going to be great, Faith. Hang in there!! You will see results quicker than you think and that should provide some incentive for you to keep doing the stuff that works.

Em \:\)

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley