I don't think they would have words over it. From the little I know of her, she doesn't assert herself at all.
Based on what I am reading, H is not paying what a court would order him to pay. A court would ask much more.
DB counselor suggested saying "It sounds as though you are saying that since you earn less, you should have fewer responsibilities. Is that what you are saying?"
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D