Still Tryin's new thread 2

[SuperDad]

ST,
A while ago, on Puddle's thread, you asked:

um, SD, why are you not wanting her to be your friend? You are working on saving your M right?
I understand the hurt from having a WAS having an affair, but if DBing to save your M, you can't refrain from becoming friends

I will be friendly to her, but as long as she is breaking her marriage vows, along with a few other commandments, and shutting me out of the important details of her life, I will not be her friend.

How many friends do you have who cheat on you, shut you out from the important details of their lives, take, take, take and don't give anything back. Yup, I thought so...NONE! She will have to do many 180s before I would call her my friend.

I do not view this as outside of DBing, just the ultimate detachment.

SD