I talked to H this morning. I told him since he already made the plans with d7 and she wants to stay over I wasn't going to tell her no. I asked him to talk to me in the future before he does it again. He said he would. I also told him that I had no say in how he chooses to live his life, but when it comes to our d I was going to express my concerns whether he liked it or not.
I ended the conversation saying that I just "didn't approve" of how he is handling this situation. He said " you have made that very clear."
But guess what? It didn't seem to matter or change anything. Ow is there with my H and d tonight playing "family".
It makes me sick..... I don't respect him anymore. He obviously doesn't respect me and hasn't for the past 3 years!
I am also done standing... I ditto what mrs said today.
No one knows what the future will bring, but for now I don't like my H , don't trust my H and disrespect him. He is not acting like anyone I want to be with. I deserve so much better than this.