Well, each situation is different. If my wife is going to do something like that then there wouldn't be a M after all. If she is going to do that, it's going to happen whether I am there or not. She knows that I'll hate her forever if she ever did anything like that. And she has begged and pleaded with me that we will always be good friends for the kids' sake even if we break up. So I very much doubt she'll do anything stupid like that. If she wants to be someone else, I told her she needs to just end it. There's no need to sneak around.
Anyhow, anybody got any good success story with separation that'll cheer me up? :P Actually I wish I'm at where NikkiB is at now. I'm envious that she has made it. NikkiB, any additional advice you want to throw my way in regards to how you got through the S?
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
