Based on your response, I think you will be able to heal and move on in a good time line. You have learned a lot of valuable lessons, you are very young and have a whole lot of living ahead of you.
I would recommend the following site and get on their email list. This is a divorce recovery program that is hosted around the country at various churches. It is a Christian based program but it systematically deals with the issues surrounding divorce, issues that most people deal with afterwards: