Sunny,
You are a DB goddess! That was absolutely beautiful. Definitely do go out on Friday and let his mind wrap around all the things you could be out doing. I can't remember where I read it, but we always covet the things that others want or that are scarce. It is just the way we are wired. If H thinks that there are other men pursuing you, you become a more desirable, scarce "commodity". It is a strange way to look at it, but useful nonetheless.

I still say you should not invite him to the party and certainly not unless there will be some hot SoCal dudes hanging around you like moths around a flame!

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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