Quote: Well, I feel ok about losing the friendship because he obviously doesn't support my marriage. But now, after hearing a mans point of view about my H's EA, I'm thinking that maybe it was a PA, even though I've let it go and I truly believed my H that it wasn't a PA. UGH. I'm so upset right now.
first off before I even got to the question you are now pondering...I was thinking gee how much better off you'd be without an inconsiderate "friend" like this guy... anyone who would talk to you like that is NOT your friend.
of course he is going to put it in your face the ow and of course he is going to try to may you doubt what h tells you about it being an ea..this man is trying to make h look bad...make himself look good...but all he's doing is making himself look like a little boy.
don't take his opinion as a man to mean anything...my h too had an ea and I question it at times...I talked to plenty of men and some take the sterio type and say yup something was going on and others say not neccesarily so.
don't doubt your h based on what an occassional "friends" opinion might be.
