Do I want him back?

[forward]

I talked to DB coach and decided to ask H if he would rather pay for just part of D1's care, say every week or so.

I do think mediation will be important. We have practical issues to consider. I kind of ignored H today. Was listening to new music and cleaning as he played with D1. I made myself dinner. H said something like "Give your mommy a break" to D1. Um, yeah. Said he was hungry and I offered him some of what I made but he just ate a little piece and went home. Always complained about my cooking so I guess it still isn't good enough for him! Oh well.

I noticed he was standing really close to me but I think it may have been coincidental.

DB counselor suggested not letting H defer to me in D1's care. Today he asked me if it was too hot to take D1 out. I said "I don't know--what do you think?" He decided it was too hot (actually for him more so than D1, I think, as he was warmly dressed).

Curiously, OW called the house last night but I am assuming that it was just a misdial on her cell. I knew it was her because I did an autocallback. H would've likely been at home.