saying "i can change i can change" doesnt help until you can figure out WHAT you need to change. I asked my questions, to try to help you figure that out.
I have a suggestion.
Go back and carefully reread ALL my posts to your thread, and pick out every single question I asked, that you didnt answer. Then answer them . Note that there are no "rhetorical" questions that I have asked. Every single sentence ending in a "?" that I have written, I think can help you, if you look to answer it.
Some of them have more context around them. Dont quickly skip through and narrowly answer just the sentence with the "?" in it. Look for the overall context it is in, as well, and think about it.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
