Hope, I don't know if I've ever "talked" to you on your thread. I just read your last post. I didn't realize he had had previous affairs. I think you should be proud that you stood for your vows and your M, but know that you will be in a much better place in say a year from now. I think you are right when you have said once the D is final, you will be able to move on. If he wasn't putting 100% into YOU and into your M, and was having other A's and now this one, you honestly do deserve better. I understand that you are hurting and that all of that doesn't make anything better at the moment, but I truly believe in the end you will find someone who will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
