Yes, I have always gone to the gym. It is a good release. I have always been one to workout, but I have stepped it up a bit since this started. I am running almost 3 miles per day. Our gym is on base and I don't really know anybody there. There are a lot of people and it is all military. Although, I am surprised that I haven't ran into H on the weekends. Terey, your gym sounds like so much fun! It sounds like something you would see on TV!
I think I did pretty good too when he called. It was hard to not be mean and ugly to him when he needed me as he has been when I needed him. But, I am not that kind of person. I even went out of my way to help him before he left because he was in a bind. It went ok this morning, we were civil. He was very upset about having to leave on such short notice, and again I just listened and tried to be sympathetic. By the way, a TDY is a Tour of Duty and it is just were they are sent somewhere usually for less than a month. We found out today he will be in New Jersey until the 31st. I am leaving for my interview on the 30th and coming back on labor day, so it will be a little over a week before we really even have an opportunity to have any contact.
...Sounds like your H is looking for reasons to have contact...