I'm not sure what you want me to say. I'm a scumbag? I have no morals? What? I know I screwed up, I know I've done a lot wrong in this marriage.

And I never said I changed. I haven't, at least not much. But I believe I can change and I want to change. Really, I'm sure you think you're being helpful by telling me I'm a man of no character but you're not. I've been kicking myself in the teeth for the past 3 weeks over the past 3 years and I don't need any help in that department. I do want my wife back, I want my marriage back. That's what I came here for.


Me: 32 in OH
Wife: 29 in MD
Married: 4 years
No kids
Seperated 14 months