then i'm afraid you're SOL, my friend.
there's no way you can work on your marriage like that.

The only way you'd have a chance, is if you went to the retrouvaille weekend, and she decided to change HER job.
But if you go in with that kind of expectation, i'd expect to be disappointed.

surely there's some kind of military "family emergency" somethingorother you can file. or some kind of "crisis discharge" you can get, perhaps.

you gotta get out.

fixed duration "temporary but long term" leave?


When a woman wants her husband to work on their marriage, the last thing she wants to hear is "I'm sorry my job wont let me".

Last edited by Dom R; 08/23/07 11:45 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle