oh, ps: enough of the "can't do anything" attitude, reguarding the work situation. that's the biggest issue between you right now, and its the biggest thing proving that you dont care enough about your marriage, to have a good one.
If you're serious, you will find 'something' you can do, to be with her and work down there. You should be able to find at least 10 positions you can apply to, within 20 miles of where she is currently living, within a week. Being able to land one, is another issue. But you should be able to come up with 10 positions, that you would really take, if you got a job offer to, within a week.
Doesnt have to be the same money that you make now. doesnt even have to be in the same field. The point is; what's your priority? your current job? or your marriage?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
