Yes, things do move fast with a dissolution, that's part of deal with them. 30-90 days after submitting the paper work, you stand before a judge and it's over.

I have read about half of both books, still working my way through them.

I appreciate your comments on the conditional demand. Something I hadn't thought about before and I'm not sure it would have a positive impact but it could work. Thank you.

Obviously, I don't know you or your H but is it posible that he has not "given up"? I mean, is it possible that he's lying to himself about this and how he feels about it?


Me: 32 in OH
Wife: 29 in MD
Married: 4 years
No kids
Seperated 14 months