Just clicked, same question you asked me -- you sure she was where you think she was? Any other explanation?
For your sanity, I know why you're detaching, it's just you were so close less than a month ago that it just seems a shame to totally throw in the towel. However, I agree on you taking the steps to protect yourself, especially regarding the cell phone -- especially since she can go to the mall and be up and running on another account in an hour. If her insurance would be more expensive than what you have, why not offer to keep her on yours but make her pay for it. If she doesn't pay, you drop her. You're giving her a little good/little bad, plus you're still being a good guy.
Resist the urge to be vindictive, as hard as it is. You'll feel better about yourself in the long run.
Have fun with the ladies! woo hoo. Wish I weren't so damn shy.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY