quick thoughts: From what you have posted in this thread only... doesnt sound like she has to be.
I am not following what you mean by that???
Originally Posted By: Dom R
well, in that case, there is nothing stopping you from inviting her back if she wants to come back.
SHE DOES NOT CONTROL YOU. YOU DO.
She cant "make you" take care of "all her needs". Sounds like you have to set guidelines on YOURSELF. But meanwhile, feel free to invite your wife back into your home, I'd say.
Dom you are 110% correct. I think knew that in the back of my mind somewhere, but, I guess I just needed someone to wack it to the front of my mind and you just did. Thank You.
Any suggestions on how to approach her about moving back in together. I do not want her to feel like I am trying to take advantage of her situation. or that I am using it as a desperate attempt to save our R. I know she wants her independence, but unfortunately she can not afford it financially.
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