ok question for you all? Sunday is H's birthday, I plan on taking the kids to get their pics done tomorrow and framing it and giving that to him from them. But I am having a hard time letting the day go by without me acknowledging it. So I texted him today and asked him if he would be ok with me getting him a present. He asked back, why would you do that? I said, why not? He then joked about me buying him expensive Eagles concert tickets, and I just said, how about a CD or something, and he replied which CD he would like. I am thinking of just giving him the CD and a joke birthday card, something very light hearted. What do you think?
Also H and I had a talk last night about being friendly. I asked why we can not just chat, why is it always so business, and sometimes I would like to be able to talk to him and not feel like he hates or resents me. He told me that I can talk to him about anything, but not to think I was going to rekindle anything (his putting me in my place again). I told him, not my intention, and told him to call when he got off work at 10 if he wanted.
Well he did call, we just chit chatted about nothing, was very light hearted, etc. Then I realized he was at the liquor store right around the corner from our house, and I joked with him to get me a beer. Well guess what he did, bought me the beer and brought it over. Crazy huh? I swear I know that was probably all against DB'ing, but I don't normally drink, so I figured he would see that as a 180, and also it let me know that he is not being withdrawn anymore? Or am I reading this all wrong?
