Oh as to the question in regards to the S. She said she wants 30 days to think about things and then go from there. She will take time for herself. There is no seeing other people or anything like that. Although it may take longer. I rather it take longer than she makes an abrupt decision. I'm praying for patience on her part. I'm also hoping that if she feels there's no progress on her part, she would be open to something like Retrouville or this 4day BT based intensive therapy thing here that I heard has 80-90% success rate and supposedly people feel the marriage is 75% better. It's something based off the person that wrote The DNA of Relationships. Heck I would love to go now and I think it would do wonders for our R. But she isn't interested in doing that right now and you know how that goes.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
