Would you be confessing to your H to get a reaction from him? I'm not sure 3 emails constitute an EA no matter what they were saying, but that's just my opinion.

Obviously, it needs to stop immediately or it will snowball. You may be surprised at how hard it is to stop, but you will regret it later if there is any chance of making things work w/ your H.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10