Well, I guess no news is better than bad news for now. Haven't heard from W in a week when I got an email full of condescending remarks, including one about my mother. Seems the guilt is wrecking her tho she doesn't realize just how miserable she must be w/ the new dude (bum). Funny thing is that I am not even jealous of the A, more disgusted and surprised in who she chose than anything. Still think she is going to file soon, but am thinking that DBing has got me nowhere through all of this, and am ready to actively start trying to persuade her into counseling or Retrouvaille. Any thoughts?