The reason I moved on this so quickly is that it is, for the area, a rock bottom price and a good-sized apartment -- 2bed/2bath with room for my work desk and a small table in the dining area (Won't be attractive, but functional). Plus, 4th floor, so I get a good stair workout daily and less noise.
General question here. On the apartment topic, what is the general concensus on who moves? I've been talking with my sister, and she thinks it should be the W that takes the hit and moves. After all, it is her decision to end the R and not work on it. Is this more likely to cause bitterness and resentment? Do the lawyers have any recommendation on this? Any potential for accusations of abandonment? I think we are at the point now where the living together is just not healthy and counterproductive to the R. Someone is going to have to move to give the needed space. Should it be me?
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
So, all in all, a good day. She said again that she feels this will be good for us. I didn't launch into a R thing. She said she knows the door is still open, but has been living day to day fo a few months and hasn't thought about the future, but she hopes that we'll remain friends regardless of whether we end up together or not.
OK. For anyone reading this, backing off and giving space works. Just do it. I'm not even out of the house yet and she's visibly more relaxed around me.
Hear this loud and clear now. Currently backing off, thank you.
