Yes, I do want to get back together. Just not back to how we were. I am afraid that that is what will happen, since she is not wanting to work on the R yet.
From what you have posted in this thread only... doesnt sound like she has to be.
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I do not mind us moving in together, but I do not want us to return to the old ways of me doing everything and taking care of all her needs. Is there a way to move back in together and set some guidelines or a POJA to keep this from happening.
well, in that case, there is nothing stopping you from inviting her back if she wants to come back.
SHE DOES NOT CONTROL YOU. YOU DO.
She cant "make you" take care of "all her needs". Sounds like you have to set guidelines on YOURSELF. But meanwhile, feel free to invite your wife back into your home, I'd say.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
