Should I ask him to move back home?

[Dom R]

some people who have written about their attempts at marital recovery, have written about the hazards and pains of having the person move back too soon.

It's odd that your counsellor seemed to focus completely on "getting him back in the house", without any safeguards. Did they not say ANYthing else?

like, asking him if he is interested in exploring a better marriage together? and/or if he is "done with" this other woman?



If he is done with the other woman, (TRUELY), then I would guess it's a great idea. Otherwise....