Your NC is doing you wonders. I am so happy for you.
NC ROCKS !!! If ya'll find yourself on the NC/LRT/Plan B it does help. You start to gain perspective. You detach. You start to see differently what others (at least in my case) are trying to tell you.
Been kinda eyeopening. I've been trying to figure out what WS and I's real problems were. NC seems to have shown me.
Here is something that may explain. I wrote this as if she started on me about how much of a f**cker I'd been or if she should start all the denial crap with me again. It's a word picture to say indirectly what her character appears to be. As always comments are appreciated: ------ You often said that you raised your brother. I remember conversations that we had where you stated that if your brother were to have a child, that that child would be better served by not having a relationship with your brother.
Reasons you cited included your brother's: -irresponsibility -dishonesty -lack of integrity -manipulation of others -alcohol and substance abuse -unreliability -selfishness and self-centeredness -laziness -contempt, disdain, and lack of respect for others -insincerity -inability to admit when he is wrong -infidelity -Etc. ------ I read some interesting quotes lately:
"The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree".
and
"Thoughts become Actions Actions become Habits Habits become Character Character decides Destiny"
