Yes, your H is 'in love' with ow for now, but he is on an affair drug high. Sooner or later that will fade. I don't think most WAS in affairs suddenly 'hit bottom' like Prodigal did. I think most of them gradually lose the drug high they're on. You really can't stay on any high forever. When that happens, their expectations of eternal bliss are shattered and they start blaming the OP and vice versa. Then things start to crumble.
I sound like I'm the know-it-all guru here, but I'm really taking this from all the books and posts I've now read on the subject.
We all read about everyones particular situation...the stories all sound so similar...the are at least 3 other guys we could just substitute our names.. My DB counselor told me this was text book MLC,and so forth...here is the BIG BUT,are the books, stories, etc. going to hold true about the A dying it's own death ?... I am 18 days out till our court D date, doing DBing, GAL, DB counselor, going dark grey w/ NC ,praying, pastor counsel,posting my heart,and there are so many other things and here I am missing my precious lost bride more than ever...
I am just trying to catch my breath hoping my bride will wake up before it's to late....SorryDog
Me 47 W 42 D 20 S 18 D 13 S 11 Married 17 yrs Asked for D Mothers Day PA found out on 6/14/07 W filed D 7/3/07 D court date 9/10/07 W moved out 7/17/07
