Hi Everyone, Thanks for the comments. It's so nice to have friends on here.
I get an e-newsletter from a e-book that I bought. It is about a couple who actually survived the H having an affair. It tells his and her thoughts and how they survived. I found it enlightning. I think it may be too late for me, but still I found some things that made me understand more. If you would like a copy of it, it is lengthy, email me and I'll forward it to you. My email is klr1504@cebridge.net. Be sure to put DB friend in the subject line so that I know it's not spam.
Oh by the way my friend's husband saw the new "hair" and he was telling her how riduculous he looked. He said it is definitely a bad toupee! I can't believe H thinks he looks good!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon