Hi. Well, one month for each year would have been 4 months (H dropped the bomb right before our 4th anniversary).
Lets see, Bomb Dec. 2, DBing since then. H declared his love for me about 2 months after bomb, BUT, we had tried to work on some problems right after he got back from his deployment in Sept., so we tried from end of Sept. to Dec. Didn't do too great because I couldn't let go of the past hurts, etc.
I'd say that's about right, one month for each year. I'd say we worked on it for about 4 1/2 months (worked on it the "right" way after I got DR in Dec. after bomb).
I also am happier than I've been in a LONG time. So is H. I still have fears. I fear that he will "lose" the feelings again. But, I can't live like that. That got me in trouble in the first place, being insecure!
Anyway, I have to catch up on your sitch. Hope you are doing well!
