I have been to Retrouvaille. The cost is $100.00 deposit plus a donation of what you can afford. They never turn people away due to monetary cost. That is where the sponsorship of the Catholic Church is so helpful. A vacation is nice, but it doesn't solve underlying marital problems the way Retrouvaille does. It's not the same. Of course, I don't know if Ret. can solve physical problems. I'm glad to hear that he gets hard and is happy when you're done. But a visit to a urologist is probably still in order.
