Congratulations Jill!!! I'm happy for you. If you ever find yourself backsliding read DR again, it's great for that. Another really good book is "Traits of a Lasting Marriage" by Jim and Sally Conway. How about another, "Love Busters" by Willard F Harley Jr. And last but not least the bible. I am almost finished it myself and as soon as I am I'm going to read another version of it. Can't wait. I want to be the kind of wife God wants me to be.
Did you find that Michele's general guideline of 1 month for each year of M to work out for you? It sure does seem that the longer people are M the longer it does take to make it better again. The one year anniversary for my H's bomb is this Friday and I plan to enter a new post that day. We are still recovering, but getting closer all the time.
Remember, be his girlfriend! treat him like you are still dating. Let the small stuff go, it just ain't worth it!
