Prodigal - My apologies to you for the hijack dialog here, but I think it does have relevance to your sitch as the WAS.
MKultra - Yes, your H is 'in love' with ow for now, but he is on an affair drug high. Sooner or later that will fade. I don't think most WAS in affairs suddenly 'hit bottom' like Prodigal did. I think most of them gradually lose the drug high they're on. You really can't stay on any high forever. When that happens, their expectations of eternal bliss are shattered and they start blaming the OP and vice versa. Then things start to crumble.
I sound like I'm the know-it-all guru here, but I'm really taking this from all the books and posts I've now read on the subject. I'm really right about where you are in the process. My W is really only in the second month of her PA (the EA started much earlier). You can read the gory details in my thread.
To Prodigal - Please keep posting. We are all still hungering for details on the mental/emotional processes of the WAS. Thank you so much!
Larry
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