Do not continue to dance with men who clearly have not found their purpose in life or whose purpose in life is one which you are unwilling or incapable of supporting. Do not kid yourself that you will be able to help a boy become a man by finding his purpose for him or offering him a maternal level of support/rescue.
You remind me of my friend in the above statement. She is going through a D right now and she was clearly mothering her H from day one. She admits it and states her next R is going to have a totally different dynamic. It has to. She is prone to "mother" people and she knows she needs to change that about herself. Seems to be the case in your own life as well.
