I have to say this. My H has no problem in become erect. When I climax, he's done, boner and all, he simply rolls over and seems to be as content as he can be. Now I ask is this stress related, anxiety, etc.
Oldtimer. I certainly can ask if we can spend money on Ret. I've suggested this before and he told me that a nice vacation, just the two of us would be just as good for us. That seems like a very logical statement to me. I like vacations.