How often were you two getting it together in the early days of your R? When did this LD stuff from your H start? It sounds to me like he has enough T in his system to be getting it on with you at least 2 or 3 times a week. It sounds to me like there are definitely other issues in this R. Can you tell us a little more about what those might be?
And by the way, don't play away. You could sit your H down and tell him quite sincerely that you are feeling sex/affection starved to the extent you are thinking of stepping outside the M to get your needs met. Maybe a dose of reality will rattle his cage.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
