So, you're already divorced? It's final? that's pretty fast, or have you just not updated your signature? 6 weeks seems pretty fast to get it all done???
It was not contested. Filled out the papers online on a Monday night, went to the notary public with her on Tuesday morning, took the mandatory classes on Saturday and filed all the papers with the court the following Monday. Court said they would be mailed out to us after the judge signed them.
WOW! I knew you didn't HAVE to wait in Utah, but I didn't think it was that easy. Really makes me wonder...
Anyway, what do YOU want from the relationship? Do you want to get it back? Do you not want to? If you have hopes of getting things back together, then let her move in. You'll need boundaries as mentioned, and then play it like you're confident in who you are without her, and see if she comes to you. Then, you have to go through some counseling because chances are very good you can't figure it out yourself.
Good luck!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
