My H hasn't said anything in about 3 weeks about quitting his job. He makes vague comments about having to substitute teach this year, or not having his own class, yet he hasn't actually quit his job yet. This makes me really nervous. If you don't provide 60 days notice to your employer you risk losing your license. He hasn't provided any notice at all. This leads me to believe that he is planning on returning to his current teaching job this fall even though he keeps saying he isn't. His actions and words aren't the same thing and I can only trust his actions at this point.
I want to bring it up with him by saying something like, "have you given any thought to what your conversation with Mr. Administrator is going to be like." But I don't think this is the best way to phrase the question because it allows him to say yes or no. Any thoughts on if I should bring it up with him at all, or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or if there is a more effective way to broach the topic?
I'm emotionally prepared for him to return to his teaching job and fear that he will see OW and that will rekindle his A once again. He seems to making headway with putting that R behind him, and I think that one interaction with OW could throw off all progress. I am also concerned that Retrouvaille will not have the proper effect if he is still seeing OW everyday...thoughts?
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
