Hi guys, Sorry I haven't written much school is going strong...Everyone wants their money imagine that..... Hi bob I will look at the thread... Hi H I hope you and Theo are doing better...and feeling better. How is it having your W home all the time? Is she taking it well or not. Hang in there.....HUGs for you.
Mattie I will visit your post and see how things are going..Yoyo it is never dull in all of our lives. I would just like things to be normal but I guess what is normal?????? My H still calls everyday but always finds some little thing that I do or say that bugs him. He almost acts like he is doing me a favor by calling. Sometimes I don't take the calls then I feel guilty in case its business. ITs amazing how much time they take even when they are not here. I had a friend call me about a place she owns and might be getting back (she got it in her D after being M 34yrs)and the girl that bought it can't make it her bf left her high and dry and she wondered if I would be interested. It has really given me alot to think about. It might not work but it is worth a thought and it would be great for me and the boys and it would be a great start. It kinda nice to think about something else for a while. I like being proactive and all this A stuff really Has taken it out of me. The first A after he begged me to come back and then turned around a gain and had another. It has made me really do some soul searching. I see where I made the mistakes but I think we all get in to a rut and don't realize it. I believe I am getting stronger and if we D I believe now I can go on. Not saying there won't be some down days. I have feelings that I would still take him back (I don't know Why) and then you have the feelings could you ever love someone else or is there any one else out there. I often think would I still make the same mistakes. I still think it's kinda funny that my H OW is everything he hated. But that's his problem. It will all surface sometime. He told me yesterday that he was going on a trip this weekend. I ask(which I probably shouldn't have)where are you going? He kinda got irritated and said I haven't decided. He needs to go back on a job. He doesn't want to come help me a lot because I have to handle everything when he is gone. So in his mind he is taking over when he is here. He lives in his trailer 70 miles away but close to her work. OH well...Speaking of work I better get busy....Have a good day !!!Sorry about the long post I just got carried away...
I see where I made the mistakes but I think we all get in to a rut and don't realize it. I believe I am getting stronger and if we D I believe now I can go on. Not saying there won't be some down days. I have feelings that I would still take him back (I don't know Why) and then you have the feelings could you ever love someone else or is there any one else out there. I often think would I still make the same mistakes. He needs to go back on a job.
I can totally relate to those feelings. I'm doing pretty good about not obsessing over him lately. I've decided I would be better off without him because of the pain he has caused me and he has no remorse. He thinks he is entitled to happiness and he wasn't happy with me. What happened to the vows "for better or worse"? I thought marriage was working together for the betterment of the family you created. I guess all of our WAS don't feel that way. That's why it's up to us to take responsibility for our own well-being.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
He needs to go back on a job. He doesn't want to come help me a lot because I have to handle everything when he is gone. So in his mind he is taking over when he is here. He lives in his trailer 70 miles away but close to her work. OH well...Speaking of work I better get busy....Have a good day !!!Sorry about the long post I just got carried away...
Okay, this really makes me mad! He is off with the OW while you are working to try to keep your business going. This is so unfair to you, not only are you trying to deal with the emotional side of all of this, but he puts all of this on your shoulders.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I don't know if there is another way to do it, but this is the way I do it. I type up my post and submit it. Then I hit the edit button. You will see a smiley face button on the tool line (not the big group of them), put your cursor where you want the smiley to go and then click on the smiley, choose the one you want, and click.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
