Had a session with Jody this morning. Gave me a lot of insight on what I should and need to do. Didn't realize that in order to give her space it's going to be that hard. Visiting the kids is like knowing she's there but I can only treat her as a friend not as a wife and minimal contact. That is going to be a tough one. Originally we planned 3 times a week I have dinner with the family and put kids to bed. But apparently that's bad and I shouldn't have dinner with the family. It sabotages what we are trying to do, which is giving her space. Uck! The S is going to be a lot harder than I imagined. I can do this! I will do this! If I am to save my M I need to get through this. Man do I wish there's a local support group of DBers around.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
