Hi all, Sorry to hijack your thread summerd but this is a bit similar to my situation!!! My h is, as far as I'm aware still having a pa and ea complicated by the fact that the ow is now pregnant. Now whenever we have contact ( and it is pretty minimal ) he is friendly and has never ever been nasty to me. I feel that over the past few weeks that he is beginning to regret his actions. He nearly always invites me out when he has the kids although I do refuse because I don't want him to think he can cake eat. Now I have read how other people's h's have been nasty, difficult and such like. I can honestly say that my h has never behaved like this to me. Yes in the beginning we did shout at each other but this was instigated by me because I was so angry about the situation. I have started to detach and he has noticed and commented on seeing another stronger side to me. He says that he likes it! I try not to instigate R talks but when I have he has opened up to me. I am confused though because it just seems that nothing can happen until the ow is out of the picture plus there is the small matter of a baby ( he has told me that she does not intend on keeping it and he definately doesn't want a baby ). Am I just being presumptuous (?) with this or is he giving me signals? I don't want to miss them if he is!!! Surely if he wanted me out of his life he would be nasty. He just seems to really care for me still. Perhaps I'm just being a mug............
