Talley,

Sorry that I have not been on much lately, but crazy here.

You need to realize that nothing is going to change on her side unless SHE wants it to. There is nothing that YOU can do about that. Especially if there is OM in the picture.

I know it is difficult to do, but that is what you need. GAL, develop the best you and go out there and enjoy life.

It is like that old saying, if you love them, let them go and if they come back, then you know. That is the approach I have taken with mine.

How often are you calling her? Do not pursue. That is key. Be there when she wants but let her open up on her own time. You can not do anything about it.

Hang in there!


CIAZ
M 7/97
S 5/05
D 8/06
Both 33 years old
No kids