good to hear from you and get your clear response. Yeah, the monetary aspect is where I want to make it absolutely clear. I imagine she has some money saved (she never put what she earned into our common account), so I can't stop her going unless I return the favor, requiring her to pay half the house costs until we move out, for example. I will not have or fund a christmas party like we usually do, no more nice stuff, no more clean outward appearance. I will take care of the kids, really the best things in my life just now, but not facilitate any more insults on her part.
Do you have suggestions how to make these last months okay for the kids? Ideally she would first see OM after we finally split.
A drink to the end of an episode -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.