The one thing that did bother me, was that I replaced the sadness and pain with anger. But the anger was only there when I was around her. Once I or she would leave, I felt like a weight was lifted off of my shoulders. But even the anger was subsiding with time. Letting go allowed me to talk to her as an acquaintance, rather than an old friend or STBXW. I was able to treat her like less than a co-worker.
Yes Pooh! This is EXACTLY what I'm feeling right now. I hate the sight of his face b/c it brings so much anger out. Not so bad when he's not around. And I have to see/talk w/him pretty much everyday b/c of the kids.
Thing is, he is real confused right now. I've gone from being nice to cordial. I'm not mean at all. Just to the point w/no chit chat. ONly b/c I'm afraid chit/chat will lead to slip/slap
Thanks Pooh! You rock!
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
