I am not sure if you will see this, but I posted a response to you a while ago.
The kids are back in school since yesterday, W asked today if I wanted to talk, said no, dreading things. Have managed to put her off until after a business trip, when I return in mid-September, still sticking with the plan.
It seems she wants to keep the house, both since it is nice and for the kids sake, and to save social face. I am in much more of a nuke the whole thing mood, particularly after spending a night on the floor in the living room two weeks ago, waking up early, and hearing her get 2 SMSs at 5.30, probably from OM.
Of course I will take care of the kids, though not sure how, especially if I move to the States. I more just want to get the ball rolling and figure things out when the D is in process (unless she surprises me and wants to work on things). We have six to nine months before it is all gone, so there is some time.
If she wants to have OM move in, I am thinking of moving out but putting in webcams to monitor the place, so OM cannot be here. I would rent someplace instead - might be a good idea anyway with the current real estate market.
Anyway, how are you? Are your kids at school? How are they taking all this?
Best -
Luke
ps. Nice new name, by the way, positive feeling.
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
