I can tell you forgivness is possible, you have to truly forgive in order to move on. I was the last person in the world you would have thought would tolerate an A, I was always one loudly saying it would be over right away they would be out without a doubt!!! But here we are... The strange thing now is, this last time hasn't even bothered me that much, it was just kind of like here we go again, and deal with it, the pain was there, but I could deal with it, with a few bumpy patches, thoughts of her don't really weigh as heavy as before. We each have to choose what is right in our situation, and how we approach it, is very important, but I know that whatever you chose you will be calm and together. Its funny we see ourselves as weak and without respect, but really we are the strongest of the strong, to go threw what we have and still be standing, and not only that but trying to help others threw also!!
I know whatever you decide you will make the right decision for you!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!